Mom Talk Support Advice and Groups

Moms Need Good Friends

Are you a new mom, a seasoned veteran, or somewhere in between? Look for groups catering to your specific needs, like "Newborn Mamas" or "Toddler Tamers” or do you prefer outdoor activities, playdates, or discussions about raising children? Groups often focus on specific interests, so find one that aligns with yours. Do you want social interaction, parenting advice, or to build a support network? Choosing a group with similar goals will ensure a fulfilling experience. Look for groups that meet online or in person, depending on your preference. Do you prefer small, intimate gatherings or larger, more dynamic groups? Choose a size that feels comfortable and allows for meaningful connections. Some groups focus on discussions, while others organize regular playdates or workshops. Ultimately, choose a group that feels comfortable and welcoming to you. Don't hesitate to ask for help and support – that's what mom groups are for!

Avoid Comparison to Other Parents

Focusing on your unique family process & goals instead of comparing yourself to other parents is one way to avoid comparing yourself to other parents. Furthermore, it can be helpful to keep in mind that every parent has their own unique set of parenting skills and challenges and that what works for one family might not work for another. Additionally, make an effort to surround yourself with encouraging and nonjudgmental people and stay away from social media and other places where comparisons are simple to make. Ultimately, when you catch yourself comparing, practice self-compassion and kindness toward yourself. Enjoy being a parent and reject the comparison. God made us individually, so respect others but be led by good parent practices and do not feed into the way others may do things.